In today's "Fun with Donnie"
Nov. 25th, 2025 04:28 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
mickeymThe household was doing a casual conversation about names for pets. Donnie said she and Megan had talked about one day -- when their cats are gone -- they might get a pair of ferrets, and name them "Rigatoni" and "Tuk Tuk". I knew the name sounded familiar but couldn't place it, and then she mentioned the Disney movie "The Last Dragon", and yeah. It's the name of one of the characters. But I googled it, and it's also the name for a small taxi (three wheels only), common in Asia, parts of Africa, and South America.
Then Donnie mentioned something about a movie called The Samurai (I think?). I said I hadn't seen it. She said "Oh, it has Tom Cruise in it, such a good movie, blah blah blah". I mentioned I don't watch Tom Cruise movies, and she asked why. I said because I dislike his whole Scientology thing, and I won't give my money to him. And she said "That's so stupid." And when I said maybe, but that's how I feel -- because it really is -- she said something else, and I said something else, and she got up from her chair, huffed out and into her room, and shut the door hard. Not quite a slam, but definitely close to it. All over me saying I don't like Tom Cruise, and why I don't support his movies!
At no point did I say she shouldn't watch Tom Cruise movies. At no point did I say anything about anything else related to that. (I do have one exception to that, and that's the War of the Worlds remake from 2005, but that's because I love anything to do with War of the Worlds more than I dislike Tom Cruise.)
Then she apparently was yelling to Megan about that, and about how Matthew is being selfish and not thinking about the whole household, because he's not sure what he wants to do about Madisyn. She actually said to him today, when he and I were talking about trying to put some money on her Commissary account in December, after we get our checks. And Donnie said, "I thought Matthew was getting a divorce from Madisyn." Well, it's a very complex situation. He probably is getting a divorce, because that way he can separate his household from hers, in order to get back the benefits he lost when they got married.
But it absolutely isn't any of her business what he does, unless it's going to involve Donnie in some way. And Madisyn is in rehab (supposedly started yesterday), and will likely also be looking at some prison time when she's done. She had 15 months of probation left when she missed her meeting, she likely will have to serve that final 15 months behind bars, or possibly the entirety of the original 3 year sentence. Plus the new charge of missing the meeting, and having drugs in her system, but that's pure speculation on our part right now, because she hasn't even had a court date set yet.
And Donnie and Megan? Will not be living here beyond May, because WE probably won't be living here beyond May. But nothing is set in stone yet, and none of it affects Donnie. Because she won't be here. But holy hannah, does she not have any reason to be commenting on what Matthew's doing, unless Matthew specifically asks for her opinion/advice. Which he's about as likely to do as he is to walk outside and let himself get hit by a school bus.
Ugh. Just, ugh. :-/
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Then Donnie mentioned something about a movie called The Samurai (I think?). I said I hadn't seen it. She said "Oh, it has Tom Cruise in it, such a good movie, blah blah blah". I mentioned I don't watch Tom Cruise movies, and she asked why. I said because I dislike his whole Scientology thing, and I won't give my money to him. And she said "That's so stupid." And when I said maybe, but that's how I feel -- because it really is -- she said something else, and I said something else, and she got up from her chair, huffed out and into her room, and shut the door hard. Not quite a slam, but definitely close to it. All over me saying I don't like Tom Cruise, and why I don't support his movies!
At no point did I say she shouldn't watch Tom Cruise movies. At no point did I say anything about anything else related to that. (I do have one exception to that, and that's the War of the Worlds remake from 2005, but that's because I love anything to do with War of the Worlds more than I dislike Tom Cruise.)
Then she apparently was yelling to Megan about that, and about how Matthew is being selfish and not thinking about the whole household, because he's not sure what he wants to do about Madisyn. She actually said to him today, when he and I were talking about trying to put some money on her Commissary account in December, after we get our checks. And Donnie said, "I thought Matthew was getting a divorce from Madisyn." Well, it's a very complex situation. He probably is getting a divorce, because that way he can separate his household from hers, in order to get back the benefits he lost when they got married.
But it absolutely isn't any of her business what he does, unless it's going to involve Donnie in some way. And Madisyn is in rehab (supposedly started yesterday), and will likely also be looking at some prison time when she's done. She had 15 months of probation left when she missed her meeting, she likely will have to serve that final 15 months behind bars, or possibly the entirety of the original 3 year sentence. Plus the new charge of missing the meeting, and having drugs in her system, but that's pure speculation on our part right now, because she hasn't even had a court date set yet.
And Donnie and Megan? Will not be living here beyond May, because WE probably won't be living here beyond May. But nothing is set in stone yet, and none of it affects Donnie. Because she won't be here. But holy hannah, does she not have any reason to be commenting on what Matthew's doing, unless Matthew specifically asks for her opinion/advice. Which he's about as likely to do as he is to walk outside and let himself get hit by a school bus.
Ugh. Just, ugh. :-/
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Date: 2025-11-25 11:37 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-11-26 02:12 am (UTC)I really don't have anything to say about your living situation except that people who freely express their opinions should not quibble about someone else in the household expressing a different one.