kinks and fetishes, oh my
Jul. 20th, 2009 06:56 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
mickeymThis anon kink community/meme thing is rather interesting to read through -- not only the filled requests, but the requests themselves. The non-con/rape stuff doesn't do a thing for me, but there's a lot of other stuff, probably a little bit for everyone (particularly since 'kink' or 'fetish' can really mean just about anything -- witness when people ask 'what's your bullet-proof kink', generally meaning cliche or trope, or the like).
What I find fascinating is the number of responses/comments to the filled requests, where people are saying (anonymously) "Oh, god, this was so hot, I have a new kink, I'm so ashamed" or some variation on that. "Going to a special hell on a bullet." As I was reading through the stories and comments, I found it interesting that there is some correlation between how 'wrong' a kink feels/seems and the number of anon versus non-anon comments to it.
I also find it kind of interesting that while the John/either boy stuff (particularly if the boys are young) has in the past sent me into a tizzy, I have no real issues with (the fantasy sort of) bestiality, as in, written fiction. I've read some good stuff, some really BAD stuff, I've written some. I wouldn't condone it in reality, and honestly? I've watched a few clips and it's just really not that hot. The fictional, fantasy stuff is much better, much hotter. Anyway. I also (obviously) don't have an issue with the incest thing, though again, it's not something I would condone in reality.
When I sat down and started typing up this entry, I actually had a point. However, I've been interrupted three times during the typing, and my memory is about as reliable these days as a sieve is to hold water. So, whatever my point was, it's lost now. But! If anyone wants to weigh in on the topic of kinks and fetishes, be my guest. I'm even going to try and be around to actually respond to comments *g*
What I find fascinating is the number of responses/comments to the filled requests, where people are saying (anonymously) "Oh, god, this was so hot, I have a new kink, I'm so ashamed" or some variation on that. "Going to a special hell on a bullet." As I was reading through the stories and comments, I found it interesting that there is some correlation between how 'wrong' a kink feels/seems and the number of anon versus non-anon comments to it.
I also find it kind of interesting that while the John/either boy stuff (particularly if the boys are young) has in the past sent me into a tizzy, I have no real issues with (the fantasy sort of) bestiality, as in, written fiction. I've read some good stuff, some really BAD stuff, I've written some. I wouldn't condone it in reality, and honestly? I've watched a few clips and it's just really not that hot. The fictional, fantasy stuff is much better, much hotter. Anyway. I also (obviously) don't have an issue with the incest thing, though again, it's not something I would condone in reality.
When I sat down and started typing up this entry, I actually had a point. However, I've been interrupted three times during the typing, and my memory is about as reliable these days as a sieve is to hold water. So, whatever my point was, it's lost now. But! If anyone wants to weigh in on the topic of kinks and fetishes, be my guest. I'm even going to try and be around to actually respond to comments *g*
